Men's Chat

You join the same group of males everyday and suddenly realise there isn't anything to talk about. The ability to start a conversation is a gift that some may possess but for the majority, it's just not that simple.

This post has some rather thought provoking conversation topics that males have varying opinions about.

Tattoos 

Tattoos can be very personal to some, while for others they are a regret. They can be a sign of self-expression or simply an obsession. Whatever the reason, men seem to be more judged than women for having them. 

Too many of them and they're a thug, not enough of them and they're not normal. So what is it we don't like about them? What is it we'd rather see? 

Women rated men with tattoos less attractive to those who don't have them, according to a poll in 2021. 

Women also said meaningful personal tattoos were more acceptable, than those who cover themselves with patterns. 

Are we on a planet where judging others is still a thing?

In light of the Boyzone Documentary: 

This documentary, available to watch on Sky Documentaries, was a very big eye opener to me. Who knew what really went on behind the scenes of fame and the fake news ? It has made me think though, do men worry about being unskilled? Not being good enough in their jobs through fear of getting the boot? 

Whether worrying about shame or personal failure, there are always deeper reasons for being anxious of losing a job. Or sometimes comparing one against another may happen in the workplace. 

So do males worry more about losing a job? 

How important is it to celebrate? 

Celebratory excuses such as a promotion, an engagement, passing exams or even Christmas are typical reasons for females to gather. It seems males feel a Celebration for their Anniversary with a loved one or sometimes to wet a baby's head would be more their reason to gather. 

Are males therefore, less thoughtful? Or do only big milestones mean something more to them?